[CR] An apology (WAS: Fwd: Campi spoke protectors)

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From: "Jon Spangler" <jonswriter@att.net>
Date: Thu, 24 Sep 2009 00:10:42 -0700
To: Dale Brown <classicrendezvous@bikelist.org>
Subject: [CR] An apology (WAS: Fwd: Campi spoke protectors)


Dear Listers,

I wish to offer you all an apology.

A local CR member pointed out that my response this morning to Mark Winkelman's offer of a Campagnolo spoke protector--and a NOS version at that--sounded like a criticism of Mark's pricing or his auction. This was never my intention. In fact, I was enthusiastic about his auction and meant to convey support in my post, but my hastily and poorly chosen words had the opposite effect. (See both posts below.)

Mark was "a little taken aback" by my post, and he appreciated the apology I already offered to him off-list. The apology should have never been necessary, however, and the slight was completely avoidable. This incident was a reminder to me to choose my words more carefully and to think a bit longer before casually hitting the send button. Even unintentional word choices can hurt and upset others. ("Always edit every email you send out" is one of my standard rules. I broke it this morning with predictable results.)

Penitentially yours,

Jon Spangler a chastened writer-editor in Alameda, CA USA

Begin forwarded message:
>>
>>> *From: *Jon Spangler <jonswriter@att.net
>>> <mailto:jonswriter@att.net>>
>>> *Date: *September 23, 2009 9:37:55 AM PDT
>>> *To: *classicrendezvous@bikelist.org
>>> <mailto:classicrendezvous@bikelist.org>
>>> *Subject: **Re: Campi spoke protectors*
>>>
>>> Mark,
>>>
>>> I bought two of these at American Cyclery a whle back--used, not
>>> NOS--for lots less than $24.95. Had to have 'em, Campi partisan
>>> that I am...
>>>
>>> Jon Spangler
>>> Alameda, CA 94501 USA
>>> where the fog is just clearing and i have to get to work...
>>>
>>> On Sep 23, 2009, at 8:12 AM, <classicrendezvous-
>>> request@bikelist.org <mailto:classicrendezvous-
>>> request@bikelist.org>> <classicrendezvous-request@bikelist.org
>>> <mailto:classicrendezvous-request@bikelist.org>> wrote:
>>>
>>>>
>>>> Message: 5
>>>> Date: Wed, 23 Sep 2009 09:25:28 -0500
>>>> From: accobra <accobra@peoplepc.com <mailto:accobra@peoplepc.com>>
>>>> Subject: [CR] CAMPAGNOLO SPOKE PROTECTOR - CLEAR PLASTIC - eBay
>>>> Outing
>>>> To: <classicrendezvous@bikelist.org
>>>> <mailto:classicrendezvous@bikelist.org>>
>>>> Message-ID: <F4533591E8A441BB900CF5F5B896AB9E@MarkPC>
>>>> Content-Type: text/plain; charset="iso-8859-1"
>>>>
>>>> eBay Outing (mine)
>>>>
>>>> An unusual item that someone might need - a new old stock clear
>>>> plastic Campagnolo spoke protector:
>>>>
>>>> http://ebay.com/<blah>
>>>> ViewItem&item=190336759518&ssPageName=STRK:MESELX:IT <http://
>>>> cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?
>>>> ViewItem&item=190336759518&ssPageName=STRK:MESELX:IT>
>>>>
>>>> Item #190336759518 if link doesn't work.
>>>>
>>>> Mark Winkelman
>>>> Dallas, Texas USA
>>>

Jon Spangler Writer/editor Linda Hudson Writing

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