Norris:
You're a framebuilder. You supported your family by building frames for decades. You learn something new with every bike you buy. AND, as tools of the trade, those bikes are tax deductible. So enjoy the bikes, every last one of them, despite the rust and dust!
BUT, most important of all: Never (did I say NEVER?) forget your wife's birthday, your wedding anniversary, your first date, or whatever reason you can find to shower her with gifts.
It takes a good wife to suffer an obsessive-compulsive husband.
Amir (I feel your pain) Avitzur
R"G Israel